
Notes on making real friends as an adult, in NYC and beyond.
How Kndrd stacks up against the other ways to meet people.
Why adult friendship in New York is hard, and the concrete moves that actually build a social circle.
How to tell a real friend-making app from a dating app in disguise, and which formats actually work.
Why it gets harder with age, and how to build a close circle of women on purpose.
A practical playbook for going from knowing no one to having a circle in a new city.
Where to find apps built for platonic friendship and community, and how to pick one.
The structure that made friendship automatic is gone. Here's how to rebuild it on purpose.